Fat Girl Musings: Fit Guys With Fat Girls?

Hey everyone!

I'm thinking about making these kinds of blog posts a weekly addition to my **YouTube channel.

Anyway....

So I was scrolling through my Facebook feed and this popped up "This male model is getting real about fit men who are attracted to plus-size women" I was like hold up, let me click this. I quickly realized that this was about a YouTuber who speaks about his love for bigger sized girls and seams to advocate for body positive. Now I have watched one (okay a few) of his videos on the subject but I didn't subscribe because I know guys that look like him a.k.a socially acceptable hot as fuck dudes are into fat babes. Moving right along....

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Fast forward to a few hours later there was a clap back (that's what the cool kids call it right?) shared on Facebook by another page saying "Dear Hot Men Who Love My Body As it: IDGAF" so you know ya girl had to click on that link. It was by a woman, whom I do not know saying in short that it doesn't matter who is attracted to you, you don't need to be validated by some guy to feel confident and worthy. Yes y'all! I agree.

Now I shared the the first post to my own Facebook page.I did not share the second. Why? Sit back, I'll tell you.

I shared the first one because it is high time it be socially acceptable to be in infatuated (pun intended) with a larger body. This YouTubers videos are not there to make plus-size women feel better about being plus-size (news flash we fly as fuck and we know it) it's for like minded men to be able to say "Yes! Now there is a dude that gets it! Fat Babes are awesome!"

I can not even begin to tell you about the amount of men who are into fat chicks but don't say so because of sociable pressures.

It's more common in your everyday to see a "fit" guy with a "big" girl but in movies and TV it's pretty much unheard of. This needs to change because us fatties are awesome, sexy, smart, funny, and just as hot as every other woman out there in the world is and the guys who finds us bewitching are normal.

Now I didn't share the other article not because it wasn't good, or made a point but because I need to see a block buster rom com staring a plus-size female lead and a "fit" male lead. I need young men to be able to embrace their admiration for a larger figure and for chubby young women to see that you do not have to loose weight to find a partner.

Do we need another persons validation to makes us whole? Fuck no.
Do we need to de-stigmatize the love of larger bodies? Fuck yes.


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So to all the guys out there who are into fat chicks I say: Let your love be known. Fuck what your friends think, fuck what society thinks. You do you.

Last but not least to all the plus-size beauties out there: You are what you love not who loves you.


**Didn't know I had a YouTube channel? That's okay not many people do. Check my last blog post for a link ;-)

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